Sounds like I'm not alone. With multiple spine/neck injuries, every ounce makes a difference. Well, that is if you are really dedicated to EDC and/or LEO on the job. After 18 hours of every single day of your life, the inch shaved off the slide/barrel, and aluminum frame can make the difference of being able to manage well, or ending the day in real pain.
Every trade-off discussion (argument), steel/alum, 3"/4"/5", caliber, rifle/handgun, pistol/revolver, round count, etc...... all come down to one thing...an individual choice based on personal compromise for their own circumstances.
If I'm going to be poking hundreds of holes at the range, I rather like the heavy boys. But for EDC, I'm willing to compromise to maintain my personal pain threshold.
Although it does make me smile a little when these topics pop up. How many of us joe schmoes are really going to be able to afford the ammo and range time to wear out any frame, even if a whimpy aluminum.
Let's say the little alloy has a max life of 25,000 rounds before frame goes kaput. Win White Box 45 still running around $50/100. You're looking at $12,500.00 in ammo alone before over-taxing a properly cared for frame. Now you live in a city, and the best/only option is an indoor range, running $13 per hour (cost of the one I frequent), and you average around 200 rounds per session. That's 125 range trips to get you there, costing around $1,625 in range fee's. So all in to wear out your lightweight hip hugger..... $14,125.00.
Yeah, yeah, I know, stupid example. So in short, buy what you like, use what you buy, run it to death, and enjoy the entire ride.
Damn, I really need to get out and shoot. It's been way too long. Now if I could only decide on what to take....full sized steel, of shorty alloy, no wait, maybe should go 9mm because of a headache....oy, but I have all those polymers sitting in the safe with no recent love....maybe one of each....crap, I'm never going to hear the end of it from the wheel guns.....Oh, maybe my boy will want to go, so should consider some 22's and an AR. Ah, just forget it....too much to decide on a Friday...maybe I'll just go home and work on another holster. Oh Noooooooo, holster for a heavy all steel, or compact aluminum?